rework XML stuff a bit, right now it's wildly inconsistent, but all the AB stuff should be fine
more ContactUpdate out of known because i didn't even KNOW that was an operation in sharingservice and noticed it looked weird being in known.
Add a SOAP template too.
+ ADD
+ REM
+ URL
* fixed a bunch of formatting
* changed the default list version to 255, if it increases to 256 it means it changed
* fixed a bunch of muscle memory mishaps
* Clean-up some missing "fill this in once information is available's